tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537634935444359971.post3254490747343715945..comments2023-07-16T05:11:15.233-04:00Comments on View from Down Here: Darn that guiltviewfromdownherehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06617837422220577661noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537634935444359971.post-52376486322914103882012-02-01T16:09:14.630-05:002012-02-01T16:09:14.630-05:00I was pretty much going to say the same as Sarah. ...I was pretty much going to say the same as Sarah. My niece is pregnant and diabetic, and I tell her all the time to just remember that everything she does to herself is affecting the baby in some way. EVERYTHING you are doing is for the baby too, and not just your own well being. Besides, the folks at work are probably happy to have the boss gone. Think of it like that. :-) <br /><br />http://www.talkativetaurus.com/Krissyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15912465691969392635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537634935444359971.post-18987427109662640472012-02-01T13:59:05.883-05:002012-02-01T13:59:05.883-05:00I like Sarah's comment. Let's go with that...I like Sarah's comment. Let's go with that. :-)<br />Very soon for you!!!Sprite's Keeperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00790341033920919000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537634935444359971.post-11846690876805488152012-02-01T13:24:46.913-05:002012-02-01T13:24:46.913-05:00Oh, I know what you mean. I've been dealing wi...Oh, I know what you mean. I've been dealing with that guilt since MJ and I moved together. At first, it was because I was studying and MJ was the one earning a decent salary. Then I got a job, but a few months later, I was unemployed again. So I started to feel guilty again. Then I got another job, but it was brutal. I started combining several jobs, MJ and I weren't happy because we could barely see each other. So again, I was feeling guilty, because I wasn't being a good wife. I wasn't making MJ happy, and I wasn't happy. So I quit my job, and became a SAHW and freelancer, working from home. And every day, I feel guilty, when I see MJ going to work. But now I don't care anymore. MJ's happy. I'm happy. I'm healthy again {when I was combining several jobs, I lost my periods due to all the stress and anxiety}. And MJ's thrilled with this new situation! So I try not to feel too guilty... haha<br />{wow, that was a long comment}Mami en construcciónhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02576346274826601186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537634935444359971.post-55284200477197407622012-02-01T12:58:15.047-05:002012-02-01T12:58:15.047-05:00It seems you are ok with staying home and taking c...It seems you are ok with staying home and taking care of her, so lets look at this logically, THAT IS WHAT YOU ARE DOING NOW, taking care of her. It will never cease to amaze me that we grow these little people and even though she seems like a concept on some level right now, you could actually have her today and then she will be here and separate from your body. She is already fully cooked, just getting the finishing touches on her now. You are taking care of her right now, weather it feels like it or not. Just think of this as your working part of your maternity leave, and let go of the guilt mamma! :)Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10863438436831673555noreply@blogger.com