tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537634935444359971.post7332996462157750534..comments2023-07-16T05:11:15.233-04:00Comments on View from Down Here: Ironicviewfromdownherehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06617837422220577661noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537634935444359971.post-75704759427634433062013-03-28T17:17:28.110-04:002013-03-28T17:17:28.110-04:00Judy said it really well! Marriage is not 50/50, a...Judy said it really well! Marriage is not 50/50, all too frequently it is 60/40, 70/30, 95/5 and the one carrying the most weight changes from time to time. I can honestly say that my husband has carried more weight in this walk than me more frequently. I think he would say that when it came to raising our daughter, worrying about her, fighting for her...I did the most of it outwardly. It is always a balancing act.<br /><br />Now to that don't worry thing, when you figure out the key (no platitudes please) let me know. I even tell God how to do stuff!! I realize I'm being selfish and untrusting, personally I think God is laughing. Not derisively, but like we do when little kids try to do the too-big-for-them task. So I am trying to make my prayer, "God I believe, please help my unbelief." It works...most of the time.<br /><br />You are in my prayers!<br /><br />♥<a href="http://lillian-davis.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow"> Lily-thinking thoughts</a>Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00934178675925534780noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3537634935444359971.post-80133723896290126982013-03-28T15:28:30.387-04:002013-03-28T15:28:30.387-04:00This whole 50/50 deal in marriage is just plain wr...This whole 50/50 deal in marriage is just plain wrong! There have been lots of times when I couldn't give 10% let alone 50% to my marriage. That's when my husband carried the full 100%. There have been times when I've done it for him. Definitely prayers out for T! I think you two are blessed to have each other!Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16917139752555698353noreply@blogger.com