Wednesday, December 31, 2014
Tuesday, September 30, 2014
My husband must have never watched movies growing up. Seriously, he has seen pretty much nothing. Ever. I knew this going into our relationship, but sometimes it just hits me just how sheltered from movies he has been.
The man has never seen the Wizard of Oz or any part of Gone with the Wind. Granted, Gone with Wind is not exactly a “guy” movie, but still it’s a classic. Shawshank Redemption? Never seen it. Hell, the movie is played all the time on TBS or TNT on weekends, isn't it? Granted, I know that most of our weekend time is spent watching Disney or Sprout PBS, but still….did he ever watch TV or movies in high school or college?
None of the Oceans 11 series. I was the one who introduced him to Airplane! when we first started dating.
The other night we were watching Dancing with the Stars (well, no, I was watching it and T was begrudgingly trying to ignore it), and the theme was movie night. One of the movies featured was Ghost. He had never even heard of it.
Tommy Chong (yes, of Cheech and Chong) danced to a “Scent of a Woman” theme. This is my husband’s response:
“What is this movie? Does the woman smell? What is this movie about?”
I turn and stare at him, not responding.
The one that shamed me the most was Back to the Future one. The actress who played Loraine, the main character’s mom, is on the show so of course she danced to “Power of Love” by Huey Lewis. T starts making fun of the song: “What movie plays Huey Lewis and the News?” “T, it’s in the movie – very important.” So I try explaining who she is and what the movie’s plot was as T gives me a blank stare.
“Have you ever seen the movie?”
“But wait, you laughed at my cousin’s joke about the DeLorean. That’s a movie reference. Did you get it?”
“I knew it was in the movie.”
“Yeah but you can’t laugh at a movie reference when you don’t even know what it’s about.”
Then I turn to him and ask “what kind of bomb shelter did you grow up in? Did you even own a TV? Did you leave the house?”
I’m not sure he can be saved. I thought we could make a list and check-off movies as we see them, but I am not even sure there’s enough time to handle such a task. It’s insurmountable.
Monday, September 29, 2014
We had fun playing around the pumpkin patch/apple orchard. They have a petting zoo, rides and other little things for kids to do (and parents to spend money, of course). Aubrey had a good time, and that's all that counts. This smile...
She LOVED the cider. We each got a little cider jug, and she downed hers pretty quickly. I love this picture, btw...
Anyway, so we have been going to this place since I was first pregnant with Aubrey, and every year, we take a picture at the same place. It did not start off like a tradition or anything, but it has kind of worked its way into one. Looking through these pictures, it's amazing how things change and how the time flies. I believe somewhere around six months pregnant with Aubrey....
Saturday, September 27, 2014
Monday morning I will be doing something that I have not done in about twenty years. I will not be going to work. Not because I’m sick or on vacation, but because…well…I don’t have a job.
By choice, mind you. I’m not going into it because I am a professional, and I do not under any circumstances talk about my employment at all but I had to make a decision that was hard, took a lot of thought and was the right thing for me to do. However, I did it without the big thing I always have in the past – I did not have a job waiting for me. I won’t go into why either, but that’s not what matters to me at this point. What matters to me is….
What the hell do I do Monday?
I have worked since I was basically 12 and started babysitting, then working at Baskin Robbins, daycares, and so on…I don’t think (aside from first year of law school) I have ever NOT been employed. Hell, I worked when I was studying for the bar exam. So this is something that scares the hell out of me. I worked during my maternity leave, for God’s sake!
I am struggling with the feeling that I am letting my family down, and I am not going to lie that I am freaking out like you would not believe. I am fortunate, however, that I am in a two-income household, and also, I do have my writing. I’m not raking it in by any means but I am bringing in something. But still…
Friday night and Saturday morning found me quickly applying for various freelance writing opportunities until T essentially pulled me away from the computer and told me to stop and take a breath. That and think. It is going to be hard, yes. It is going to suck, yes, but I need to take this time to breathe and take care of myself, as well. I did not just get mono for absolutely no reason, after all. “You can start looking for writing gigs and then permanent jobs on Monday.”
What am I going to do? That is a whole other post for another day. For now, I am taking as many freelance opportunities I can and potentially doing contract legal positions as I do some real soul searching. I need to decide what it is I really want to do. I need to find something that actually makes me happy. For so long I have jumped from job to job because I had to and because I needed that immediate income. But none of those jobs were right for me, and what did that bring me? A resume’ with lots jobs for short periods of time, and I never wanted that. So I have some serious thinking to do, but a lot of writing in the process.
And I’ll be damned if I sit on the couch watching daytime TV all day.
Saturday, September 13, 2014
Yep, that's right. The Wiggles! Me, Nain - the person who never in a million years thought she would go to something like this - voluntarily went into an auditorium of toddlers dancing to kid's music. But I did it for her, because this face was worth it:
Dude, she was excited. When we first told her that she was going to see the Wiggles, I'm not sure she understood until we got there and they actually came out on stage.
Did you guys know that they have a girl Wiggle now? And she's pretty talented, too. I have to admit they did put on a good show. This concert was not one of those either where they make you wait and go on stage like 30 minutes late. Nope, not when you are dealing with toddlers. You start on time and end before 8:00.
She was mesmerized, especially during the ballerina part where the girl Wiggle (Emma) and another ballerina danced. I'm thinking someone is going to be a ballerina for Halloween. She loved it.
It was a weeknight, and logistically with T coming from Columbus and me working downtown with the concert being at 6:30 downtown, it was a nightmare but we pulled it off and it was SO worth it just to see her smile like this.
Monday, September 1, 2014
We’re wrapping up this much-needed long weekend, and I am telling you I could so go for just one more day. Not just one more day with a child in my presence, however, but just one more day. Of sleep. Glorious sleep.
We had T’s family down from Michigan this weekend, and any time family visits is always a super fun time but also exhausting. Aubrey was in heaven seeing her Grandpa and Nana, and I’m not going to lie…it was nice having someone to entertain the kid every now and then, though Mommy was still in high demand. We even met up with my parents at a local winery for an Irish band concert and wine, so Aubrey was spoiled by both sets of grandparents. The parents stuck around for a fire pit that night, so it was a lot of good bonding time with the parents and children.
I love watching how close Aubrey is with both of her grandparents. I want her to have that good relationship like I did with my own grandparents. So it makes my heart so happy to see her loving all over her grandparents. She was in her element, too. The kid was so hyper it was ridiculous. At one point I considered putting a stake in the grass outside and tethering her so she could just run around and get the energy out. In that respect, it will be good to have things get back to normal with school and what not.
It is funny because I imagine T’s parents were more than ready to leave come Monday evening. They love Aubrey, I know, but they also do not live with a toddler full-time. I am guessing they longed for that peace and quiet, no matter how much they love spending time with her.
I do feel blessed T and I have good relationships with both sets of parents, and I know we are lucky in what we have. It really makes you step back and just realize what you have through these little moments like watching your daughter hug your mom or hold her Nana’s hand as she walks to the car. Or tell her Grandpa to stop hammering because his hammering noise was scaring her pee pee as she sat on the potty. Or watching her lay her head on my dad’s lap after a busy and warm afternoon outside. It is those moments.
Or it is those moments where she gives you a big hug and tells you “you’re my friend.” Those moments are pretty damn good too.